This we the theme has been family of origin. It is very important that you talk about this question with your significant other, fiancé, or spouse!

Ask your partner, how was affection shown in their family? Where family members encouraged to express their feelings and emotions openly? How was physical touch used?

When you think about how you were raised, can you recall memories as if you were reading a book about your life? When you get married all those experiences with the people who raised you, who you spent your childhood with...all of those relationships and experiences are a part of your family of origin story.