The Kids Need to Come First
The great thing about your kids is: you raise them, they grow up, and then they LEAVE! And if you have not nourished your relationship with your spouse during those child rearing years, you have a higher likelihood of divorcing.
Our philosophy for our marriage is that God needs to come first, then your spouse, and then dem kids. Your marriage should be a model for your kids on how to prioritize and nurture relationships.
So don't sacrifice your lifelong partnership and helpmate for kids, who will create their own separate lives, and then stick you in senior living