If It Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It
Every week we want to de-mystify a common myth about marriage!
This week we want to address the myth of "if it ain't broke, then don't fix it!"
In many facets of our lives (like work, self-care, etc.), we are constantly doing some form of continuous education. It could be getting a certification, continuing your academic education, or getting a license to get a promotion or just level up your life! So why not continuing to become a better, or a more well-rounded, spouse for your marriage?
If you purchase a new home, or even a car, both require you to perform routine maintenance to keep those things running properly. For example, a car requires an oil change after every 3000 miles and on your house, every year you are suppose to get your a/c units serviced. These maintenance checks are required so that they are running at their optimal output.
We must be intentional in our marriage as well! If it's doing a bible study, reading a marriage book together, going to a marriage retreat once or twice a year, or receiving some coaching will help take your relationship to the next level!
Coasting in your marriage is like paddling a canoe on a river — one with a waterfall nearby, with strong currents, pushing you toward the waterfall. We have to constantly paddle upstream (by being INTENTIONAL), all the time, or the current will move us toward ISOLATION—where the “Falls of Marriage” are waiting to take us out.
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