You Repeat Your Parent's Relationship Problems
It is more important on how you handle
your childhood baggage rather than that you have
some. Everyone has some triggers, behaviors, or
trauma from their childhood, but that doesn't mean that you have to repeat those issues in your marriage!
There may be certain words and actions that could occur that can bring up those old feelings and provoke certain reactions, but just ensure that you have have addressed those concerns with your spouse. This way your partner can proactively know what can set you off and try and avoid those situations, or work with each other in processing those triggers and events.
Don't blame your partner’s character when you have become triggered!
You are able to have a happy, stable relationship and good marriage despite any emotional baggage gained from your parents.
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