Premarital Coaching | Katy, TX & Virtually

You want the marriage.
Build the foundation
before you say I do.

Most couples spend more time planning the wedding than preparing for the marriage. This is the work that changes that. Six structured sessions to understand each other fully before life tests you.

Engaged couple working with Ra'Shunda and Jason Adams through premarital coaching at The B-Side of Marriage
Serving Katy,Texas  and across the US online.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF…

  • You and your partner handle conflict, money, or family differently and want to get aligned before it becomes a problem

  • You want the TwogetherinTexas discount on your marriage license

  • You want both the male and female perspective in the room — not just one coach's point of view

  • You are engaged or seriously considering it and want to go in prepared, not just hopeful

  • You grew up without a healthy model of marriage and want to build something different

WHY THIS MATTERS

The things that end marriages
are knowable before they start.

Ra'Shunda and Jason Adams, premarital coaches and married couple, Katy TX

Most couples discover the hard stuff after the wedding — after the baby, the in-laws, the financial stress, the moment one of you shuts down mid-argument and neither of you knows why. None of that has to be a surprise.

PREPARE/ENRICH, the research-based framework we use, has been used with over five million couples worldwide. It identifies the specific areas of strength and growth in your relationship — unique to you, not a generic template — so you enter the marriage knowing what you are working with and what tools you have.

Ra'Shunda and Jason bring something most premarital programs cannot — the lived experience of doing this inside their own marriage, plus the clinical training to hold the harder conversations with structure and care.

WHAT WE COVER

Nothing off limits. Everything that matters.

Six sessions built around the areas that predict long-term relationship success — not the topics most couples avoid, but the ones they cannot afford to.

Communication

How you each express needs, handle conflict, and what happens when one of you shuts down or escalates.

Money & finances

Spending habits, financial values, debt, and the stories each of you carries about what money means.

Intimacy & connection

How each of you defines closeness, what you need to feel loved, and how to keep the connection alive under pressure.

Family & roles

The expectations each of you has about family roles, in-laws, and what "home" is supposed to feel like.

Parenting & children

Whether you want kids, how you want to raise them, and how you each were raised — and what you plan to carry forward.

Personality & patterns

What the PREPARE/ENRICH assessment reveals about how each of you is wired — and how those wiring differences show up under stress.

Couple sitting on a couch with a laptop during a virtual premarital coaching session with Ra'Shunda and Jason Adams

THE PROCESS

Six sessions. Real results.

Each session builds on the last. By the end you will not just know each other better — you will have practiced the skills you need to actually use that knowledge on the hard days.

1 Discovery call + assessment

Before the first session, both of you complete the PREPARE/ENRICH assessment individually. Your results shape everything that follows. We work from your actual relationship, not a generic curriculum.

2 Strengths & growth areas

We review your assessment results together, including what you are already doing well and where the potential friction points are. Most couples are surprised by both sides of this.

3-5 Deep dives by topic

Communication, conflict, money, family, intimacy, parenting — we work through the areas your assessment flagged in depth. No script. Just structured conversation with Ra'Shunda and Jason in the room together.

6 Integration + what comes next

We bring together everything from the five sessions: what shifted, what you practiced, and what to keep working on once the sessions end. You leave with a shared language and a clear path forward.

WHO WE ARE

Why a husband and wife coaching team makes a difference in premarital work.

Both of you are in the room, which means both of you feel seen. Ra'Shunda holds the structure and the harder questions. Jason holds the male perspective and the lived experience of doing this inside their own marriage. Neither partner has to fight to feel understood.

OTHER WAYS TO WORK WITH US

Find your starting point.

Every couple's situation is different. The discovery call is where you figure out together which format makes the most sense for where you are right now.

  • Couples Coaching

    Already married and hitting the same wall?

    Premarital builds the foundation. Couples coaching is for when life tests it. Ra'Shunda and Jason, both in the room, every session.

    Learn about Couples Coaching →

  • Marriage Intensive

    Already married and need to go deeper?

    The intensive is a full day with Ra'Shunda and Jason — for couples at a crossroads or navigating something that cannot wait for weekly sessions.

    Learn about our Marriage Intensive →

  • The B-Side of Marriage Podcast

    Hear what marriage actually sounds like from the inside.

    Ra'Shunda and Jason talk openly about what it takes to stay connected — conflict, communication, intimacy, and the moments that test everything you built together. 136 episodes and counting. Free, honest, and a good way to get to know who you are about to work with.

    Listen to the podcast →

REAL QUESTIONS, REAL ANSWERS

Before you reach out for premarital coaching.

  • This is coaching — not licensed therapy. Ra'Shunda's licensed premarital counseling is available through Aim for Healing Therapy, PLLC for those who need that level of clinical support. Both are available, and the discovery call helps determine which is the right fit.

  • PREPARE/ENRICH is a research-based assessment used with over five million couples worldwide. It identifies your relationship's specific strengths and growth areas rather than giving you a generic curriculum. Both partners complete it individually before the first session.

  • Yes — Ra'Shunda and Jason are approved providers. You will receive a completion certificate once the eight-hour time requirement is satisfied, which qualifies you for a discount on your Texas marriage license.

  • No. Faith is part of Ra'Shunda and Jason's story and they are not shy about it — but they work with couples across all backgrounds. You do not have to share their beliefs for this to be the right fit.

  • Six to twelve months before your wedding is ideal. That gives you time to do the work without the pressure of the wedding bearing down on every session. That said, earlier is always better than not at all.

  • That is actually the point. It is far better to surface a serious issue during premarital coaching than after the ceremony. Ra'Shunda and Jason will help you work through what comes up — and if clinical therapy is needed, you will be referred appropriately.

The foundation does not build itself.
Start here.

The discovery call is free, fifteen minutes, and no pressure. You will know by the end of the call whether this is the right fit for both of you.

Coaching is not therapy · The B-Side of Marriage